Written by Robert Starnes

Long story short I met an amazing woman before the SOR and through everything she stayed with me. Now, 6 months into this I am feeling like her staying with me will waste the rest of her life (we are both almost 50). My mind keeps telling me to let her go so she can find someone that can travel freely with her or just support her (which I do currently). But, my heart keeps telling me to hold on. I don’t want to be selfish and she look back one day and see all the life she missed out on. I also have been giving thought to move out of the country to be free of this, so thats another factor.

Basically, has anyone ever had to make this type of choice? If so, which one and how did it work out? I’m so confused and honestly hurting thinking about letting her go.

Thanks in advance